Self-Love
Potions
An Herbalist's Perspective on Love and Self Healing
by Cynthia Hartson
~A
Glimpse~
Last
night, something in the air caught my attention. I can’t say for sure, but it
was as if I could feel God’s reassuring breath upon my neck as I typed pages
into my book. I sat quiet for a moment, my balcony doors open to the sound of
the ocean’s evening routine.
The
curtains danced to the flicker a of dozen peppermint candles, which lined my
open window’s sill. I caught a glimpse of the sun’s trailing children,
chasing her over the horizon, as she called out her amber-colored curfew. I drew
in a deep breath and smiled to myself.
“Take
a moment,” my
heart spoke to me.
I followed these words out onto the balcony, where I was greeted by the
demanding droop of abundance from an unattended herb basket. I obliged with
necessary pruning, while enjoying the playful sprinkling from my Guardian Angel
fountain, her constant flow of water soothing my evening dreams. As the aroma of
cut herbs filled the air, once again I felt it:
“Take a moment.”
There
was a warm kiss of ocean in the air. As if drawn by a familiar potion, my head
was guided toward the starlit sky. I gave my trusting body to the down pillows
that lined the lounge chair, Falling safely and contentedly into that moment. I
blew the hair from my eyes, with hopes that the picture my heart was pounding
into the night would reveal itself more clearly. With each breath I was filled;
in each blink I became more aware; each pulse pushed the feeling closer to the
surface of my tingling skin; and, suddenly, I understood the message the night
air was pouring over me. I took a “moment” and this was revealed:
“It is the honest interest in life’s
‘moments’ that keep the Spirit and mind in harmony. It is within these
moments that we under-stand the emotionally healing nature of faith, the
physically destructive nature of fear, and the curative value of family and
friendship. Powerful ingredients necessary to create a Self _Loving Potion are found within these faith-filled moments.
Take this moment in time to discover them!”
Giggling,
I pulled my knees, along with a pillow, closer in to my chest. I felt full of
life, full in the moment, full with inspiration.
I
have a need to share my perspective of life’s “moments,” to the best of my
ability to do so, with all who will listen.
So
my friends, in my honest attempt to share a few of my moments with you, may I
ask that you “take
a moment,” too.
A moment for your God, for your family, for your friends, and for yourself. I
pray that, in these moments, your own unique Self-Love Potion will be revealed
to you.
~
Warmly,
Cynthia_Hartson~
Laguna Niguel, California.
buy it now.
Contents
A Glimpse
........................................................................................ix
Acknowledgments
..........................................................................xiii
PART One
Chapter One
......................................................................................3
Enchanted .................5
The Fundamental Ingredient .................6
Re-acquainting Myself with Nature .................15
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 1 ..................19
Chapter Two
....................................................................................23
Seasons ....................25
Through Nature’s Eyes ....................26
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 2 ......................31
My Broken Pieces .....................31
The Limo Driver ......................47
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 3 ......................49
Chapter Three
..................................................................................53
His Vision of Her ......................55
Emotional Treasures of a Fall ........................56
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 4 .......................63
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 5 .....................68
Chapter Four
....................................................................................72
Authentic Acceptance ........................74
The Spring in Nature’s Steps .........................76
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 6 ..........................77
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 7 ..........................82
An Empowering Moment ........................88
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 8 ........................89
Chapter Five
....................................................................................94
The Parade ..........................96
The Wildfires of Summer, and, Man, oh Man…Men!
......................101
The Ride Continues .........................102
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 9 ........................110
Lust, Love &Chemistry .........................113
Short vs. Long-Term Relationships
...........................120
Chapter Six
....................................................................................131
Whispers of Winter’s Wisdom ..........................133
Ocean "Moments"..........................133
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 10...........................152
Chapter Seven
................................................................................157
The Most Volatile Ingredient? ..............................159
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredients # 11 .............................160
Can Fairytales Come True? ..............................164
Girls, Guys & Gossip ..............................174
Spirit in an Original Form ...............................174
A Fairytale Ending? ...............................188
PART Two
Self Help and
Homework Section ..................................................193
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #1: ......................................................195
Spirituality
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #2: ......................................................197
Accepting Responsibility
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #3: ......................................................199
Letting Go of Envy
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #4: ......................................................201
Respecting the Free Will of Others
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #5: ......................................................203
Listening
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #6: ......................................................205
Journaling
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #7: ......................................................211
Identifying Masks
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #8 ......................................................213
Symbols of Self
~Love
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient# 9 ......................................................215
Asking for Help
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #10: ....................................................217
Learning from Your Pain and Healing Others.
Self
~Love
Potion Ingredient #11 ....................................................219
The Blending of Romantic and Self
~Love
Nutrition
........................................................................................223
My Nutritional Soap Box
Fall .
Winter .
Spring .
Summer
Water
Channels of Elimination & the Healing Crisis.
The Basics
......................................................................................250
Colon ..
Lungs .
Kidneys .
Skin .
Looking For a Healer
..........................................................................258
Constitution
What the Body Needs .
Self
~Loving
the Outside, Too: ........................................................269
Body Lotion Potions! .
Grandma’s Healing Salves
Essential Oils
and Aromatherapy ..................................................279
Applications
Raindrop Therapy
Oils, My Personal Favorites
Combination Oils
Blending Your Own Oils
Safe Ingredient
Handling Tips
This Herbalist’s
Library. ................................................................303
One Final
Thought
........................................................................319
Resources:
......................................................................................321