Self-Love Potions
An Herbalist's Perspective on Love and Self Healing
by Cynthia Hartson

 



~A Glimpse~

Last night, something in the air caught my attention. I can’t say for sure, but it was as if I could feel God’s reassuring breath upon my neck as I typed pages into my book. I sat quiet for a moment, my balcony doors open to the sound of the ocean’s evening routine.

The curtains danced to the flicker a of dozen peppermint candles, which lined my open window’s sill. I caught a glimpse of the sun’s trailing children, chasing her over the horizon, as she called out her amber-colored curfew. I drew in a deep breath and smiled to myself.

“Take a moment,” my heart spoke to me.

     I followed these words out onto the balcony, where I was greeted by the demanding droop of abundance from an unattended herb basket. I obliged with necessary pruning, while enjoying the playful sprinkling from my Guardian Angel fountain, her constant flow of water soothing my evening dreams. As the aroma of cut herbs filled the air, once again I felt it:

     “Take a moment.”

 There was a warm kiss of ocean in the air. As if drawn by a familiar potion, my head was guided toward the starlit sky. I gave my trusting body to the down pillows that lined the lounge chair, Falling safely and contentedly into that moment. I blew the hair from my eyes, with hopes that the picture my heart was pounding into the night would reveal itself more clearly. With each breath I was filled; in each blink I became more aware; each pulse pushed the feeling closer to the surface of my tingling skin; and, suddenly, I understood the message the night air was pouring over me. I took a “moment” and this was revealed: 

“It is the honest interest in life’s ‘moments’ that keep the Spirit and mind in harmony. It is within these moments that we under-stand the emotionally healing nature of faith, the physically destructive nature of fear, and the curative value of family and friendship. Powerful ingredients necessary to create a Self _Loving Potion are found within these faith-filled moments. Take this moment in time to discover them!”

        Giggling, I pulled my knees, along with a pillow, closer in to my chest. I felt full of life, full in the moment, full with inspiration.

I have a need to share my perspective of life’s “moments,” to the best of my ability to do so, with all who will listen.

So my friends, in my honest attempt to share a few of my moments with you, may I ask that you “take a moment,” too. A moment for your God, for your family, for your friends, and for yourself. I pray that, in these moments, your own unique Self-Love Potion will be revealed to you.

  ~ Warmly,

Cynthia_Hartson~

Laguna Niguel, California.

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Contents

 A Glimpse ........................................................................................ix

Acknowledgments ..........................................................................xiii

PART One

Chapter One ......................................................................................3

    Enchanted .................5

The Fundamental Ingredient .................6

Re-acquainting Myself with Nature .................15

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 1 ..................19

Chapter Two ....................................................................................23

Seasons ....................25

Through Nature’s Eyes ....................26

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 2 ......................31

My Broken Pieces .....................31

The Limo Driver ......................47

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 3 ......................49

Chapter Three ..................................................................................53

His Vision of Her ......................55

Emotional Treasures of a Fall ........................56

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 4 .......................63

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 5 .....................68

Chapter Four ....................................................................................72

Authentic Acceptance ........................74

The Spring in Nature’s Steps .........................76

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 6 ..........................77

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 7 ..........................82

An Empowering Moment ........................88

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 8 ........................89

Chapter Five ....................................................................................94

The Parade ..........................96

The Wildfires of Summer, and, Man, oh Man…Men! ......................101

The Ride Continues .........................102

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 9 ........................110

Lust, Love &Chemistry .........................113

Short vs. Long-Term Relationships ...........................120

Chapter Six ....................................................................................131

Whispers of Winter’s Wisdom ..........................133

Ocean "Moments"..........................133

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 10...........................152

Chapter Seven ................................................................................157

The Most Volatile Ingredient? ..............................159

Self~Love Potion Ingredients # 11 .............................160

Can Fairytales Come True? ..............................164

Girls, Guys & Gossip ..............................174

Spirit in an Original Form ...............................174

A Fairytale Ending? ...............................188

PART Two

Self Help and Homework Section ..................................................193

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #1: ......................................................195

Spirituality

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #2: ......................................................197

Accepting Responsibility

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #3: ......................................................199

Letting Go of Envy

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #4: ......................................................201

Respecting the Free Will of Others

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #5: ......................................................203

Listening

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #6: ......................................................205

Journaling

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #7: ......................................................211

Identifying Masks

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #8 ......................................................213

Symbols of Self~Love

Self~Love Potion Ingredient# 9 ......................................................215

Asking for Help

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #10: ....................................................217

Learning from Your Pain and Healing Others.

Self~Love Potion Ingredient #11 ....................................................219

The Blending of Romantic and Self~Love

Nutrition ........................................................................................223

My Nutritional Soap Box 

Fall .

Winter .

Spring .

Summer 

Water 

Channels of Elimination & the Healing Crisis.

The Basics ......................................................................................250

Colon ..

Lungs .

Kidneys .

Skin .

Looking For a Healer ..........................................................................258

Constitution 

What the Body Needs .

Self~Loving the Outside, Too: ........................................................269

Body Lotion Potions! .

Grandma’s Healing Salves 

Essential Oils and Aromatherapy ..................................................279

Applications 

Raindrop Therapy 

Oils, My Personal Favorites

Combination Oils 

Blending Your Own Oils 

Safe Ingredient Handling Tips 

This Herbalist’s Library. ................................................................303

One Final Thought ........................................................................319

Resources: ......................................................................................321

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